Sunday, May 7, 2017

Nilgiri Hills - Wellington,Coonoor, Ooty & Pykara

Every now and then people disappoint me and this time my sibling by choice Octopus did. He always told me he would first dance in my wedding and then allow me to dance in his baarath. But rather unfortunate that neither he got a chance to do it first nor I could do in his wedding. He betrayed me and that is the truth. Truth does hurt and I chose to let go for the heck of his happiness and I so wanted to welcome his gorgeous bride to the family. 

Kozhikode is not only popular for IIT, it is known for its beach, ghastly humidity and scorching summers. We drove from Bangalore to Kozhikode only to get ambushed in the humidity. The minute we reached our hotel we looked like the ones bathed in sea water. No, I do not complain anything else about this place for it is the cleanest city with the most friendly people around. Only and only if it were not to be such a hot place. Bangalore has been such a beautiful weather place, I no longer feel home when I visit my own home during summers. So the cribbing is very reasonable. Even then I'm still going to cherish this visit, as my brother got married there. For the first time my heart which usually makes noise saying "Take Me Anywhere" rebelled saying "Idiot stop it, the last tan hasn't even gone and you are tanning all over again"


The traveler in me who ignored the heart!

After the wedding, we made our way to the Nilgiris, Western Ghats (UNESCO declared World Heritage Site). On a summer night when I reached the Nilgiris I could feel the natural AC. The car windows were slid down just feel the nature at its best. It was a road trip, for they don't trust my new driving skill, my sibling drove all the way round. When I reached Udagamandalam, my braces started dancing in tune to the cold. The shiver ran all over me. Just wondered how the heck a summer night be like this and temperature be like 15 degrees.

Day1: Wellington & Coonoor

Once upon a time, I was very passionate about the Indian Armed Forces. I even have written a couple of exams and never qualified in the initial shortlisting for my very tall stature. The dream just remained a dream. The defence services lifestyle was something I was very much drawn to in the childhood and even now. This time Wellington is the place I fell in love with. Wellington is located in the Nilgiris District of Tamil Nadu, approximately 80 kms from Coimbatore and 18 kms from Ooty. Wellington is home to the Defence Services Staff College (DSSC), a premier tri-service training establishment that imparts training to middle-level officers of the three wings of the Indian Armed Forces, friendly foreign countries and various Indian Civil Service departments. Wellington is also the base for the Madras Regiment, the oldest regiment in the Indian Army. It is connected by road to Coimbatore via Mettupalayam, and to Bangalore via Ooty, Bandipur, and Mysore. Wellington lies at an altitude of 1880 meters above mean sea level and is blessed with a mild and salubrious climate throughout the year. For if I ever have to leave my everything, work and town, then Wellington would be the place to settle down in. 


National Flag flying high at the DSSC Entrance

Temple inside Wellington

War Memorial, Wellington

War Memorial, Madras Regiment, Wellington

 Wellington Barracks

The Wellington Barracks is now named as Srinagesh Barracks in memory of the First Indian Colonel of the Madras Regiment Gen. S.M.Srinagesh.

Inside DSSC, Wellington

Wellington has the fame of some popular movies shot there. There is a beautiful Hindu temple which also houses the Sikh, Christian, Muslim and Buddhism significance within it. Wellington also has a lake with boat house. This could also be called as a miniature to Ooty Lake but much more calm and peaceful with less or no people. From Wellington, we drove to Coonoor. On the way to Coonoor are Sims Park(Miniature Botanical Garden), Dolphin's nose, Lamb's Rock, Pasteur Museum and beautiful tea gardens. The picturesque hills are breath taking. Dolphin's nose seems to have got its name from its very appearance. A few kilometers uphill and then u reach. The view is beautiful and so is the en route. The drizzling weather and streams all over are just wonderful.


Oh yeah! I do blush at random things!

After breathing fresh air and feeling good at heart, we made our way to Coonoor Railway Station. The train that runs to Ooty from Mettupalayam, and the must thing to do can be gotten into from here. This is the best experience that one can have. On a summer day, amidst the valley, streams, mountains and the sky-touching Nilgiri trees, the train runs slowly. There are 3 tunnels to pass-through. The changing high and the low altitude and the drizzles make it a complete heaven. Close to an hour journey makes it just AMAZING. With the overwhelming experience, I reached Ooty and then the resort. The resort itself is in a beautiful location. The sunrise and sunset from the balcony are no lesser than any therapy. 


The most popular Indian Song "Chaiya Chaiya" was shot here on the moving toy train!



 Through the Nilgiri Trees!

Udagamandalam Railway Station!
Day 2: Ooty
Whoever ever made fun of Ooty only as  Honeymooners paradise, nah! You guys just got it totally wrong. There is so much more to go out and explore rather than! It's a place to be in and around in the Summer. Ooty, Coonoor and Kotagiri are the three hill stations in the Nilgiris. Nested in the Blue mountains, Ooty stands at over 2200 mts above the sea level and has all the staples of a charming hill. With the cool temperature and the greenery, it has rightfully earned the name "Queen of Hills".  The buildings and bungalows display the colonial heritage of Ooty.  The local vendors and residents are very friendly here. Every single person we sorted help from spoke fluent Kannada. What else one needs in a neighboring state? I call them Friendly and helpful.



On the second day, we chose to start our excursion from Botanical Garden. Before which we landed in A2B for a good morning breakfast. So that there are no experiments with food and tummy. When we reached Botanical garden it appeared to be too hot for the place only until the tanning process was done. And the rest of the day was cool with occasional drizzles. The walk around the entire garden takes more than 2 hours, only if you are a kind of person to enjoy the nature and weather. It covers an area of around 55 acres. The Gardens have around a thousand species, both exotic and indigenous, of plants, shrubs, ferns, trees, herbal and bonsai plants. In the center of the Gardens lie a fossilized tree trunk estimated to be 20 million years old. The Gardens consist of several lawns with flowering plants, ponds with lilies, beds of flowers and ferns laid out in an Italian style, several plots of flowering plants, a variety of medicinal plants. The present Botanical Gardens are divided into 6 sections namely Lower Garden, New Garden, Italian Garden, Conservatory, Fountain Terrace and Nurseries. 

Botanical Garden - Virtual Tour 
                            
Botanical Garden Entrance


Madatory Family Picture at Botanical Garden

Ganga at the Man-made lake inside Botanical Garden

Flowers and flowers everywhere around

 The tired sisters taking pit-stops

Boat House - Virtual Tour

The Boat-House at Ooty is one of the popular attractions. The calm and serene place to be. Look around anywhere and find only peace. For the lifestyle that we are leading, this place wouldn't be less than a heaven.  The lake is of a long stretch and is a feast for eyes. Every bit of this is awe-strucking. Do not miss it. 



Doddabetta - Virtual Tour

We then headed for lunch and made our way to Doddabetta. It is the highest mountain in the Nilgiri Hills at 2,637 meters (8,650 feet). There is a reserved forest area around the peak. It is 9 km from Ooty, on the Ooty-Kotagiri Road in the Nilgiris district of Tamil Nadu, India. It is the 4th highest peak in the Southern India. From the Doddabetta, the entire hill-station view is just breathtaking. It surrounds the three state borders of Karnataka, Tamil Nadu and Kerala. The 2 Telescopes at the Doddabetta are maintained by the State Tourism and aren't functional right now. However, the peak is beautiful even with naked eyes. After a bubble-fun trip to Doddabetta, we made our way to the Rose Garden.




Rose Garden - Virtual Tour

Rose Garden is situated in a vast 10 acres of land on the Elk Hill. The flowers are arranged in five curving terraces. The garden has more than 20,000 varieties of roses of 2,800 cultivars. It is one of the largest collection of roses in India. There is an angel statue in the garden. The names are beyond fun when you walk reading them like Liver Pool Remember, Perfect Moment, Indira, Julie, Leg Glow, Pink Glory, Blush, Earth Song, Gypsy, Dream Come True, Buff Beauty, April Moon, Madam, Living Easy, Adam, Ballerina, Cinderella, Dark Desire, Dortmund(not kidding),  and what not! All that I could think of there was - Dil Garden Garden hogaya :)  
Variety is just a noun!

On one of the terraces!

A complete walk over all the 5 terraces takes close to 2 hours, more if the pits stops are more for the photographs. Trust me you won't regret walking so much, it's an experience of a lifetime. The Day 2 ended on a happy note. 

Day 3: Pykara - Virtual Tour 1, Virtual Tour 2

The rush and hurry to leave the place that you liked so much is always a pain. I have been in such pain many a time. This time it was the Nilgiris and not Hubli. Pykara is a very beautiful place. It is both the name of the river and the place. This has been very popular in the olden movies be it Bollywood or the Southern state movies. The lush greenery and the scenic spots are just made for it. There is a beautiful boat-house, a waterfall, movie shooting spot, Pine forest valley, Lake and the Reservoir. Had I missed Pykara, a regret would house for a long time. Every bit of it is enchanting. Leaves you content. 





The short walk to the waterfall is amazing, however for ladies and elders there is a battery operated car to and fro. The pines all over made me over-aww! Only until this point, I had no idea there could be such a beautiful place in India. All that I do when I go to such places is take deep breaths, for not only it is fresh but also to live the moment.   


What not to do, while you are on a trip with Mommy!

After Pykara, we made our way to Bengaluru via Madhumalai, Bandipur and Mysore. As it was an evening drive while we reached Bandipur forest area, we were fortunate to meet the friends from the Jungle. They are fearless, for they see humans and vehicles every single day. They are beautiful and they make me wonder about God's wonderful creations. 


They are just there everywhere

So close!

This guy picked up biscuits from the passing by vehicles!

If he could only dance once!

Mysore- Bandipur Highway!


We reached Bangalore by 10:30 pm. 

This life is only as beautiful as we make it. Go places, meet people and cherish it forever. For life is all about nothing but to be happy without any regrets. 

Pack your bags and check the wish-lists. Life is not only about paying bills and waking up early and going to work. There is much more to everything that we do, every single day. 


Yet another promise to come back with another story.

Love,
V

Sunday, April 23, 2017

A Letter To Younger Self!


Disclaimer: It is either likely or highly unlikely that any sentiments expressed in this letter in any way coincide with those of any other person in any way associated with me. I was often asked what would I suggest to my younger self, if given a chance. Here I've an article on what I would say.



Dear Mini-me,

You must have heard from everyone many times that "Do not grow up, it's a trap". Today after turning out to be a 20 something, I'm going to tell you what it is like to be a grown up.  I have time traveled 15 years back to tell you how much I love you and how we have synchronically made this life for me.

First thing first, don't ever be frightened of anything. The little school going girl that you are, you are a marvelous kid. All the naughtiness that has vanished due to the circumstances in the past year, I say you should continue to be the same naughty kid. When I look back to the time I have traveled, I feel it is boring to be a decent kid.

All the tough subjects in school syllabus aren't a big deal, you will still make it to the top. It's OK if the other person is scoring 0.5 or 1 mark more than you, in the end, it does not even matter. Do not get upset over missing a rank, go out and play games, get bruises and make more friends. Go play whatever makes you happy, you need not play with a doll/Barbie at all because you don't like it. It's OK to have short hair and not have braids when you go to school.

Have as many crushes as you want, I allow you to. I still do, why not you? I know, there are Hitlers' encompassing, you need not always tell them how many crushes have you had and how you perceive it. Act crazy and weird at times, you are not straight out of a classic story, and you can be weird too. Someday a Teacher will tell you "A lotus is still a lotus even in the mud", respect her for she is going to give you the best life lessons.

I know, you have had the unfortunate times at such tender age but that is only going to make you strong. Remember, every lesson from life is unpleasant but these lessons will not destroy or kill you.  Make more mistakes and learn the hard lessons by yourself. Trust me, you will not realize it at this time but you will learn a hell lot of things in the years to come.  When I see you through the glass, I see a shy and quiet girl who is bright and intelligent. Be proud of yourself and use it to your favor.

Give, But don't allow yourself to be used. Love, but don't allow your heart to be abused. Trust, but don't be naïve. Listen, but don't lose your own voice.  And my dear mini-me, stop brother-zoning every guy you meet; today I see I'm surrounded by the maximum number of annoying brothers. Possibly only person to have so many brothers around and they'll get you mad every time in the crowd even though they stand by you when needed.

All the ways that make you different are the ones that make you stand out. It's OK to be different. Dream big because that is what you are supposed to at this age. You will eventually achieve everything that you truly desire and deserve. If you feel, life isn't fair to you right now, this too shall pass. Most of the things that are taught to you by the school and society are not the facts, it's OK you will anyways figure out what is good for you.



People say you think too much, and it will continue even when you sail through the adulthood. Love yourself, because that is who you are going to spend the rest of your life with. I feel that everything happens for a reason, even though I fail to realize it at that point in time. In the adulthood, you cannot make more mistakes, as that is how life is supposed to be. Evaluate things before acting on them, let alone people think you are old school.

 Whenever you feel you are tired; drained physically and emotionally just remember you have to keep moving. You see, today mom is very proud of who I have become after fighting all the odds. I know things happen late in my life, but I have got the best ones. So you too make an attempt to trust in whatever is meant to be, it will happen.

If you think your life is not as perfect as that of your friend's, then it is only a matter of time. Be happy with all the little things that you have, while there are people with nothing and they do still smile.  Everything will come to you at the perfect time. Do what is right for you, for there is none walking in your shoes. No matter what happens and how hard it seems to be, you will be better tomorrow.

If any evil aunt asks you to learn cooking, just say you are still in school and you will learn it someday. Today, I can totally manage it all. Anyone if ever treat you in unfair ways, voice it out and stand for yourself. Stand for mom, make her feel safe around you. Be nice to everyone who is nice to you. Life is too short to live with regrets and disappointments. Do not waste time thinking of wrong things or people, 5 years from now it will not even matter.  The nicest ones that you have met and are going to meet will stay with you forever or at least they are here at this point. Feel blessed for what you have.

If all that you did today was to hold yourself, I am proud of you mini-me. Just be real, it’s not at all complicated.


Last, but not the least - When you are wrong, admit it; when you are right, be quiet!




Love, 
The grown-up you!

Sunday, March 26, 2017

Destination: Gatikallu, Chikkamagaluru


Pretty now and then I use words like monotony, boredom, life goals, practicality, life's purpose etc. So many happenings in life, so many ups and downs, so many reasons for laziness and procrastination and yet the heart still keeps murmuring "Take Me Anywhere".Boredom is the most dreadful ordeal that we have in front of us. We experience months of grapple and scuffle that forces the heart to say "Take Me Anywhere". So with all the might and will we need to wage the war against the boredom by sea, land and air. All that went through my mind was victory, victory and victory at all costs. However long and hard the road may be; for without victory, there is no survival.

As the time was perfect(or maybe I thought so) and heart was repetitively murmuring, I quickly said yes when a bunch of office buddies planned a trip to Chikkamagaluru. For I always wanted to visit the Tea Estates in the Western Ghats and this was the time. Since everyone chooses to visit Mullayyanagiri, Bababudangiri, Honnammana halla, Kemmanagundi etc., we chose the unconventional itinerary. We decided to go to Gatikallu. We started at 11:00 PM from Bengaluru and took a break at a CCD on the Highway towards Hassan. What took us by surprise was the foggy roads at 03:00 AM on a Summer night. Our Michael Schumacher had no plans of halting until the view on the roads is clear. He drove us like crazy with our heart in mouth, we did trust his driving skill only with presentiment to reach the place safe and sound.

Chikkamagaluru takes its name from Kannada Chikkamagaḷa ūru that translates to "younger daughter's town". It is said to have been given as a dowry to the youngest daughter of Rukmangada, the legendary chief of Sakharayapattana.



Gatikallu Homestay is spread out over 100 acres of coffee, pepper and cardamom estates with an enchanting stream cutting right through. Waking up to a dreamland like this is enchanting. The painting that I made in my childhood appeared to be real for the first time. The mountains, some houses, pets around it, beautiful trees, some vehicles, the Sun rising and setting. Everything was surreal. Had I not gone, the regret would house for a long time.






The hospitality at the homestay is indeed great. 11 of us checked in on a Friday morning. When I say, Friday Morning that itself is a blissful feeling. The breathtaking view from the place we stayed in was jaw-dropping one. Somehow, none of us realized, that we were gazing at the mountains as we finally waged a war against the monstrous tyranny called monotony(boredom) without getting into our respective rooms. Chikkamagaluru is a land of Coffee and Tea estates. Having said that, you are in for a surprise when the Coffee arrives. The best coffee I have ever had, no CCD or a Restaurant would match this. Relishing the taste buds with the native foods like Kai Kadabu, Kori Rotti, Dose and a variety of non-vegetarian foods(at least I thought my friends enjoyed it) right on top of a mountain, amidst the coffee estate is another reason for Happiness.





The homestay provided multiple activities in our booking and we were made to feel home. Our first activity on the first day was Trekking. So we made our way to the ghats. All of us got into an open Jeep and the journey began, the curves on the ghats are so sharp that even a flaunting super model will be in for a surprise.





Our first stop after a good 30 minutes 4*4 drive was at Kalabhairava Temple. A magically small and beautiful old temple in the middle of a jungle. This temple is said to be 900 years old.



After the temple visit, we made our way towards Ballarayanadurga. Gatikallu is a 2000+ feet tall "One rock Mountain" with one of the most stunning views of the valley below in the World. Gatikallu derives its name from the most beautiful spot on Ballarayanadurga.



I haven't been a trekking enthusiast earlier and I paid for not being enough prepared. That only makes me warn people to be trek-ready before the next one. Trust me, one wrong step while walking down the steep mountain and I walked barefoot all the way down. Ensure to carry at least 1 right kind of footwear for trek unlike me who carried 3 pairs, none of which were helpful. Honestly, it is frantic when you look down and realize you could be dead with one wrong move. But also, if you are careful and zestful it is the most liberating feeling when you are on the cliff.





Post trekking, the next destination was a beautiful waterfall. After another 20 minutes of a humpy bumpy 4*4 ride we reached this remote place. Since it is not crowded, you will get all the time and space to enjoy only with your lunatic gang. This small waterfall beautiful in its own way. The plunge is of a smaller height. However the water is sufficient for a good time to relax.





Somehow, the water games make me feel hungry like I have been starving for ages. Only because of hunger, we chose to leave the water fall. The next activity was Kayaking. My first time and opportunity to fight hydrophobia. I'm generally a stay-away-from-water person. But this man-made lake is so beautiful that I forced myself for Kayaking. After a good joyous kayaking session, I jumped into the water with a life jacket on.



Overcoming the biggest fears is the best thing you can do to yourself ☺ I'm glad I did!



A good sumptuous meal after the day long hard work is what the tummy demands. We quickly hogged all the food that was served. We went for relaxing. Take bath, sit outside and just watch the serenity. My eyes could never thank me enough for being at this place. In the evening, the next activity was going to Sunset point. But we chose to be where we were. It was no less than a magic to watch the sun returning from my zone to another.



While girls chose to do some crazy photography during sunset, the guys settled down to sleep.





The nights are calm. Usually, only the music that plays is heard. Even though the wild animals are in the region, none were spotted. The campfire was setup at night. A lot of snacks, party music and a lot of gossips. It surprised me how even the guys get into gossiping mode with the girls around. A game called CONTACT. Somehow the game was getting more and more interesting until real late. We chose to have dinner post the game. Another course of meal and time to hit the bed.



No trip is complete without the ghost stories. The 2 other members stole the show with their stories. I regret having not taken that slot for myself :P Lol :P And that's it every girl on the trip was shivering and chased the story tellers out. I slept well that night. We had other plans for next day. Next morning, we all geared to get ready quickly and start from there for the love of Tea Estates. If not only for photographs I would still go and enjoy the Tea estates. We went to Kelaguru Tea Estates spread across more than 200 acres on either side of the hills. The enticing view on either side with tea estates is the soul soothing experience. The factory was supposedly set up during the British Era. It stands still, high and firm on top of the hill. We visited with the tickets and got an overview of the Tea powder manufacturing unit. 12 types of tea powder are made at their factory. Just an amazing thing to watch.





We departed the place by noon with the plan to reach Bangalore by late evening. With sufficient breaks for Jackfruit, Mango, Sugarcane juice and a final stop at CCD. We safely reached Bangalore by 9, after requesting Mr Michael Schumacher for the 1000th time to drive slow and safe.

Note: Summer is not the right time for any type of trips usually. But somehow most of my trips happen only during this time. Ensure to be Summer ready before you go. Trust me, as I finish writing this piece I have searched at least 100 articles and videos on youtube with keywords "How to remove tan quickly"




Victory, victory and victory, for without victory, there is no survival!! 

Signing Off with a promise to return with yet another story!

Love,
V





Sunday, March 5, 2017

Why being an Aunt is the best job ever?

Kids are amazing little things. They are honest, fun, cool, strange and endlessly surprising. All in all, they rule your world, no matter what. A few years ago, while I was a fresher in an IT company and was newly deployed into my first project, I often ran home just right on time. Because I was a new Aunt back then. I had just started living in Bengaluru with my Cousin and family.

Someday at Office:
Manager: Hey you need to stay back late and finish this work. You might as well be expected to work on Saturday.
Me: What? Why and How can I?
Manager: I'm Sorry. What was that?(Clueless )
Me: No I can't stay back late, I stay far away, My Bhabhi must be waiting, I get scared going in late night Cab, blah blah blah
Manager: (Clueless again)
Me: I need to go early, 'coz my niece sleeps by 08:30. I need to be there.
Manager: Oh! Isn't the mother with her? (Sympathetic)
Me: She is there, but I need to play with the baby. (Sigh! - I said that; Oh Damn! - Why I said that?)
Manager: Finish this before you go (Angry)



Some Aunt somewhere said -- "Aunthood: it is powerful; it redefines your identity. It really is a state of calling - a calling that is completely out of your control." When I first became an Aunt, I was so ecstatic. It was an out of the world feeling. But-but-but, Children seldom misquote you. In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn't have said. They make you feel so proud and also embarrass you in the crowd.

The purity of the affection that you receive is unlike any other form. All in all, you get to live your childhood once again. You can make a good impact on the so-called mini-me you see in them.

1. Some random kid calling you as Aunty is the worst thing ever, at least until you are already an Aunt


2. The first time you see your niece or nephew is the best feeling ever. But the first time you see them you are a blubbering fool. What’s this crying business? Eyes. Stop. Now. You’re embarrassing me.


3. Aunts be the coolest chicks ever right?  Giving the kid everything hiding from mom?


4. Any room is a panic room if you've lost a baby in it.


5. The priorities change. You run home so quickly for you are up to something. Being an Aunty has been one of the most rewarding things I have ever encountered.


6. You become super protective over the child, which isn't even your own and it isn't even been long yet.  You are jealous of people whoever wants to hold the baby.


7. You can spoil the kid to the greatest. You can do all the crazy kid stuff without looking like a creep.


8. You learn the art of buying baby clothes, giving a bath and changing the diaper. You get a taste of having a baby, but you get to sleep at night, unlike the new parent.

9. Kids are so honest. You are not funny Aunty!


10. Kids be the best and call you by the cutest of names.When you hear from the new mommy, that baby called you as Aunt(Maasi, Aasi, Aanthi, Pinthu)


11. Because Mumma keeps dressing up baby, you get to see the every new picture while you are in the middle of a meeting and you can't help but keep smiling.


12. Being an Aunt is no easy Job - Baby showers, Naming Ceremony, and Birthday Parties become Compulsions

13. Any expecting mother you bump into, you can speak the fluent maternity language. The other day a friend told me about weekend Scan- I ended up asking if it was her first-trimester Scan. She was pleasantly surprised.

14. You know all the rhymes in youtube now. Cartoon Network and Pogo becomes your favorite channel too. You know what is happening with Chota Bhim, Chutki, Motu, Patlu, Nobita, Doraemon etc.

15. Because there is a baby at home, automatically the home becomes accident prone zone.

16. The neighbor's kid is a nuisance no matter what.


17. Saying No and Asking the kid to behave in the public is such a difficult task.


18. When the time flies. It's just not that kid is growing up quickly it also means we are getting older.

19. Your sister/friend repeatedly asks - "So when will you get married? Even the kid is asking when is Maasi getting married". Oh yeah! tell the kid she is asking you to join the school soon.


20. Kids are the funniest people on Earth. You can pass on your wisdom to them and feel proud about it.

21. The experience of being an aunt prepares you to be a mom of your own mini-me someday.




Love,
V