Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Gratitude!!

Hey Fellas,

This space seems all new all of a sudden. Distance from this space suddenly makes my fingers shiver. Very much mine yet all new. 

No posts in 2019 make my life very much half-done. Well, never too late for a gratitude post. 

This year has been another roller coaster ride. It makes me think about how little I am in this whole wide cosmos to carry all stress on my tiny brain. I must tell you, stargazing has helped me in more ways than one. 

First of all thanks to you finger countable cute monsters of mine. A new job on the first day of the year, an accident - first one(taught the value of 2 months), new place, new acquaintances, new way of looking at the world, a new country, long-distance friendships, new home, new people of my own, new pets, aunt to new girls called Angel and Bubble, shopping of lifetime,  new and disciplined life, a new me and a new him in nuptial bonding. Just the right amount of everything that makes this year my perfect cup of tea. So much to be grateful for everyone/thing new and old. 

Zillion Thanks to the Universe, Daddy, the whole Family, Friends and, Everyone for this year. Forever indebted. 

Someone to #Followmeto :)


Love,
V


Sunday, June 17, 2018

Things To Do This Father's Day

Sometimes it is now or never. There is no next time or second chance. You got to live your life in the present. Maybe the life is not about becoming something or someone. Today try unbecoming what you are presently and go back to your earlier self. Today try to be that someone who you are meant to be for that someone in the first place.  

NO matter how hard the life is, be obliged for you have a loving family, a shelter, 3 meals a day and handful of friends. You are already a lot fortunate than the plethora of people around the globe.  Now that I have already made you think that "Life is Good", it's time you go and do something for your Daddy. 


    1. If you remember when the entire world said No, Daddy was the only person to say YES and vice versa. Because he knows what is best for you. Pick up that fancy phone (iPhone or any fancy android), use the basic functionality of it. CALL HIM UP. And people already living with family go and check out what the old hero is up to and give him a hug.




    2. Start believing in yourself, you young person. Because you know, your Daddy believed in you and he never agrees to it. Go and see the man and sit as an adult (even if it is for the first time, it's just fine) and talk to him about life. 


    
    3. The Angry young man never sits for a talk? Always busy with newspapers or news channels? Drag him for a while for a quick cup of coffee. It is possible. Try it, my friend.  This man has a lot of secrets in life. You sure as hell deserve to inherit these secrets. Don't you?




    4. Having kids didn’t make him a father but raising them made one. He is not as expressive as your mummy, however, that doesn't mean he feels nothing.  Say thanks often, make him feel loved even when he doesn't express it, yet he deserves it. Hold his hand and show him the world, exactly what he did years ago.





    5. This gentleman has sacrificed a lot for everything that you are today. Go for a brief flashback to your childhood, strikes? He didn't teach life to you, he showed life to you.  Buy him a nice pair glasses maybe?  Or a holiday doesn't hurt much? 




    6. Since we are grown up already that's a sign of aging, this should also let you think that the parents are aging at the same pace as you are.  Does everyone talk about healthy lifestyle, healthy food and what not? Do you really think of what is happening back at home? Take him for a general complete body checkup soon. Give him that confidence that he is still the Tiger of the house and you are the cub and not vice versa. 




    7. "Behind every successful person is a woman" ever heard this? You sure do have. I don't know whatever made the person who quoted this not to think of a man behind the successful person.  The upraised, unsung and unnoticed hero behind one's success is also the Father. He is the most valuable asset.  Today make some time and discuss life with this  Unsung Hero.




    8. Becoming a father is easy enough, but being one can be very rough for he raised you. All that you remember is only being scolded by Daddy? Good for you. At least you are a comparatively better person than what you could have otherwise been. You owe him a lot. A Thank you and a pair of his favorite clothes won't harm your pocket much. 




    9. Every Dad is a hero to his kids. Every child openly or secretly loves their Dad. Oh, wait! Sending him "Happy Father's Day, Love you Dad" message? Did he reply a "Thank You" or is he struggling to reply back? You tech-savvy children, spend some time in teaching them the technology as simple as WhatsApp message, a video call, taking pictures etc. See the changed man in a week's time.  



    Don't forget to speak to him in person. If possible just go and see him soon. This man I tell you never expresses but surely deserves all the happiness at this once again tender age.  

    10. Father's Day is just like Mother's Day, only you don't spend as much. That's fine. The old hero doesn't demand much. All your father needs today is you my friend, just You. As they age gracefully, they don't need anything much. All they need are your calls, your good mornings, your happy talks, lunch/dinner together times, you make them proud every single day as a child and most importantly your TIME. 




So here is your Father's Day pick. At least pick 01/10 and make your super hero feel loved. 



Picture Credits: Google Images

Love,
Nutty Wordsmith!



Sunday, December 10, 2017

Gone but not forgotten!

Years ago this day, she was happily attending her Uncle’s wedding. As a school going girl, she was over excited about the wedding. She was wearing a pretty lehenga choli which her Daddy dearest bought and there she was running all around the convention hall.
Only after a while had she realized that her mother and brother weren’t in the reception hall. They weren’t to be seen anywhere. Every guest that arrived, repeatedly questioned her where was her little family. She had no clue. Shortly after the wedding ceremony, she went on asking every other relative of hers if they had seen her mother, to no avail.
She strolled home which was a few kilometers away. Shockingly, there were none at home but her Grandfather. He then informed her, they were at the hospital. She certainly had no idea about what had happened. She inquired about the Hospital, which was again a few km from her home.
She walked to the hospital she was told about. As soon as she entered she saw many of her relatives in the hospital. There she saw, her mother grieving inconsolably. She saw her uncles talking to her mother. She looks here and there, she saw her brother in another corner. Running here and there with some hospital slips.
As an 11 year old, she barely had any clue about anything happening there. She walks closer and closer.  She saw two of her aunts standing close to a private room, around which the hospital staff is running about. She tried to enter the room and nobody let her to. She now became more and more anxious. Her heart beats are at a varying rate now. When she finally entered the room pushing everyone aside, there she saw her father in tremendous pain and agony. She could only see the cries in and around the room. He was crying in pain. He wasn’t able to move. The doctors around were giving him the injections. Nothing seems to be serving anymore. He wanted to pass the urine but he couldn't. He cries in pain. She was allowed to stand barely for 2–3 minutes in that room. He was immediately rushed to an Emergency. She was sent away.
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As an 11-year-old, once again she was clueless and crying. She was sent home with a relative of hers. When she reached home, the newlyweds were brought into the house. she went and locked herself in a room. She did not get out of the room until that night and surprisingly none even noticed it. At night, she walked out of the room only hearing her mother cry out loud. Her Father passed away that night suffering from Hepatitis B, until that day of which they were unaware of. 
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And that marked the worst 2 minutes at the hospital and the worst day in her life. Something she could never forget and something that would stay in her heart until the end of her time. Healing has its own way and it takes its own time. For every girl, her father is her first hero and for her, he lived up to every bit as a hero, a guiding light, a teacher, a superman and an amazing Daddy. He gave her the wings to fly and the vision to dream endlessly. The memories of endless love and the warmth make her all cold today. She is strong but tired. She wants a warm hug and a pat on the back. She wished if he could come back. She snuggles into her blanket and yet she is frozen. 
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She turns to the other side of the pillow as this side is already cold hiding her secrets. She slips into the sleep only to meet him again in the world outside this, the world of her dreams. 
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For he was the most beautiful thing she preserved in her heart and was her hardest Goodbye! Gone but not forgotten! 
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Love,
Vj (Nutty Wordsmith)

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

An Evening in Paris

There are so many dreams that are still waiting to see a sunrise, while one of mine saw it coming after yearning for years. For the heart that always desired to see sunrises in offbeat places, I aspired to help it out a bit and keep the heart and mind at peace.

I think I've found my super-symmetric friend years ago, who always made it a point to ensure my untold words are apprehended and put a smile on my face no matter what. Let's call her "Ssh". Who wants 50 odd friends when you and your BFF can exchange 100 texts and decide where to meet next? This is exactly what chanced the last September and our dream of 5 years to meet outside India was a thing for real. 


BFF Goals!
Life is good you know. So I infer you get one. The soul comforting experience when you see a new place that includes new people, food, tradition and a new you is amazing. This year I had no desire to do anything but to focus on my serenity and contentment. I like real conversations, I like places, I like genuine people, I like vacations and I like fantasies. For the Universe has perfect timings for everything, I guess things take their own sweet time to reach you. 

Ssh asked me "Where do you wanna go and what do you wanna see?" It is bad manners to keep a vacation waiting, consequently, the first thing I uttered was "Paris". That's how the planning began. I live in Bengaluru and my journey started from here. My first destination on arrival at Europe was Amsterdam. Europe tour started from there. We went places before reaching France. From our previous destiny Belgium we made our way to Paris. This was by road with Euro Line.

I stayed at Hotel Campanile, Porte de Bagnolet. We reached Paris by evening, For we were enough tired to hit the bed, we chose to explore the city. Paris is a very well connected network when it comes to public transport. The subway system looks like a mystery to me, yet I felt home using the public transport. All that you have to do is, pick a map from the hotel and look for the metro connections. Best thing is even to ask the hotel reception for a rough idea to cover the places in a logical sequence. There are around 15-16 metro lines. All that you have to do is either follow a color code or a numbering system, not even once we waited for more than 2 minutes in any station. We freshened up and took our first metro ride to Trocadero. The best thing as soon as you walk out of it is one of the wonders of the world. 


The Eiffel Tower
I don't know, since when was I dreaming of Eiffel Tower. To even an extent I had multiple Eiffel Tower themes on my phone back then when I had the first smartphone. I even don't know what about it made me go crazy over it, definitely not Raani from the movie Queen. It was even before that I had a fancy dream of witnessing a sunrise and a sunset at Paris. And I could successfully make it with her around, who is my favorite person. 
There I am!
While I was there, much before it was a beautiful sunset, I made only a couple of calls to the ones who are dear to me. I still remember my mum's face when she was proud of me and was watching the Eiffel with the help of technology. My brothers and a friend were also equally delighted when they saw it. Even though people say, Paris isn't a safe place, we were careful and alert all the while. Our entire stay was a pleasant one. 


Namaste India brings in a smile!
Do not panic if some random men approach you and say "Namaste India", just keep walking. It's just that anywhere and everywhere we are recognized as Indians and no big deal about it. Just be alright and walk. When we ended our day 1, we found an Indian Restaurant run by a Srilankan. A full meal after starving for veg food in Belgium. 

The next day, we took a metro ride again to begin our excursion in Paris. From Galliene we headed towards Montmartre. Montmartre is a dream in itself. A small village in a town. A beautiful dome on a hill. A narrow street with daunting cafes and shops on either side. A village with aging apartments. A walk to the top and A majestic view of the city from there. Brightly painted buildings, Bougainvillea and the glass lamps greet you here. All that you want is, the time to stop and stay there for a long time. 
Streets of Mont Martre


City view from the hilltop
Once a little medieval village in the country, Montmartre has an old-fashioned charm with an avant-garde edge. As you walk through the streets there are plenty of stores to shop and eat. The hanging flower pots from the building are colorful and warm. Once you climb up the hill is the Basilica of Sacre Coeur. This majestic structure is also called as a wedding cake for its very appearance from any distance. It was built as a symbol of hope after a Franco-Prussian war. Montmartre usually houses musicians near the basilica. It's a bliss to get oneself lost in. A perfect weather, on top of a hill, a cake like a monument and a magical view the city. What more could one ask for? 
The musicians engaging the tourists!

Montmartre!
Our next destination was a war memorial. As we see The India Gate, a war memorial to 82000 soldiers of the undivided Indian Army who died in the period 1914-21 during the First World War. The Arch de Triomphe is dedicated to the victorious French armies of the Revolution and the First Empire. The mighty building was built in 1806 by the orders of Napoleon but he who did not live to see its completion in 1836. At the foot of the Arch de Triomphe is the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, dedicated in 1921 as a memorial to the dead of World War I. Every evening at 6:30 pm, a small delegation of soldiers rekindle the flame at the tomb. The feeling I guess would be the same, as you stand at an unknown soldier's tomb. The structure is iconic with war figures bigger than life-size structures carved on it. When I stood in front of it, it was nerve chilling experience realizing what a havoc World Wars have been in the history. For anyone, death is a pain, while the tomb of a soldier is even more painful to watch. We can as well climb up a 250+stairway up and view the exemplary architectural structures that are encircled at Arch de Triomphe. There are so many ways that lead to the other part of the city from here. The boulevards are just beautiful for a walk. 
Arch de Triomphe
Champs-Elysées? Sounds familiar? Kangana from Queen struggling to get there? We Indians I tell you, we get the Bollywood references quicker than anything else. Champs-Elysées Avenue is beautiful. Because Paris is a place of public squares and parks, the public squares look amazingly breathtaking here. It is a wonderful place to stroll, eat and shop (provided you are rich :)). The Champs-Elysées houses beautiful French cafes and the brand stores. The main shopping attraction here is Louis Vuitton, Zara, Boss and other elite brands. No, no, I'm not rich and just window shopped there. For all the very obvious reasons it is one of the most famous streets in Paris. This street connects the monumental Arch de Triomphe, Grand Palais, Petit Palais, Invalides, Air France museum, Alexandar Port, Invalides Port, Eiffel Tower and The Louvre Museum. We walked for about 6 km to cover this stretch. 


Boulevards of Champs-Elysées!

Champs-Elysées shopping square!

The Petit Palais!

Grand Palais

Pont de Alexandre III at night!

Pont de Alexandre III
Also, the Luxembourg Gardens are just around the Alexandar Port (Pont de Alexandre III). 


Petit Palais gardens

Luxembourg Gardens!
 The next thing was to be on the terrace of one of the wonders of the World. Eiffel Tower terrace gives an astonishing 360 degrees view of the city. A river so calm, serene and beautiful - Seine River flows just across the sides of Eiffel. Apart from being famous around the world, it is the most emblematic of Paris. The Eiffel Tower was designed by Alexandre-Gustave Eiffel and built for the Paris Exhibition of 1889, which marked the centenary of the French Revolution. The tower consists of 15,000 steel sections held together by 2.5 million rivets. The terrace still has an apartment where Gustave Eiffel hosted prestigious guests. There is a depiction of Mr. Eiffel, his daughter Claire and Thomas Edison seated showcased with lifelike statues. There is a wine stall and then there is a place to Kiss.


Just around the tower!

Panoramic view from the terrace!

An apartment at the Terrace of Eiffel Tower, where Mr Eiffel hosted his guests!
 An evening in Paris is incomplete if you do not walk crossing Seine river and witness the night lights on the tower. 
Paris Lights by the river side!

Cruises at River Seine!

By the river Seine!
An exceptional coincidence on the day of my visit was Paris Fashion Show at Trocadero. Just opposite to the tower on the other side of the tower. Though I'm not a very fashion enthusiast types, the show appeared elite and marvelous to me. To be honest all I could see was supermodels walking on the grand ramp with a prompt that looked like a mere pillow to me. Then there were 1000 of delegates and fashion industry that is all gathered and all delighted. The tourists make no move until the show is over. It's funny how people were glued at the ramp, while I thought they are walking expressionless with a pillow thingy. Individual perspectives you see. 


Paris Fashion Week!
The last thing to do before the night was getting longer was to visit Madam Mona Lisa or Mona darling. Musée de Louvre is where she stays with many other from her societal class. The Museum in itself is a maze to me, while I was also amazed. All we were interested in was Mona darling. It's customary ritual kinda thing to meet her if you are in Paris. Yes, we quickly took a metro towards the Louvre.  One of the world’s largest repositories of priceless art and antiquities. As the title suggests, the Louvre is like a city unto itself, a termite compound of bustling human activity. 


Rings a bell? The Da Vinci Code?
The Musée de Louvre wasn't originally a museum but was a fortress built in 1190. In the 16th century, it was turned from a fortress into a royal palace. It was only in 1793, after the French Monarchy moved to the Palace of Versailles, that the first Louvre museum was opened to the public, and offered just 537 paintings. 


So we are going to her home! 
Leonardo da Vinci’s Mona Lisa is undoubtedly one of the most famous pieces of art in the Louvre, with people from all walks of life traveling to the museum to catch a glimpse of the world-famous painting. What you may not know about the Mona Lisa is that it isn’t as big as everyone thinks, as the dimension of the painting is actually just a little bit larger than an A2 piece of paper. The Mona Lisa also has its own bodyguards and is protected by the bulletproof glass; however, it was stolen in 1911 before being returned to the Louvre just two years later.
There she is! All safe and secure, confusing everyone with her smile!
My laugh at myself moment at Louvre is undoubted - One where people from all the walks of life just stand there in awe and look at the masterpiece as if it were to be God and granting everyone their wishes. The mad hatter, that I'm, stood there wondering what are they actually wishing for? I wondered if she could come alive and just fulfill their wishes. Jokes apart, it is a masterpiece and I do not have that thing in me to analyze those expressions on her face. Mona Lisa is a mystery where none could ever think why is she smiling the way she is doing it. 
Duh! Selfie with Mona Lisa!
The Louvre’s galleries are displayed across 652,300 square feet – which is nearly 15 acres! The galleries contain approximately 7,500 paintings, and 66% of them were created by French artists. The galleries are also divided into eight departments: Near Eastern Antiquities, Egyptian Antiquities, Greek-Etruscan-Roman Antiquities, Islamic Art, Sculptures,  Decorative Arts, Paintings; and Prints and Drawings. 

Another course of Indian meal for dinner and that calls for an end of the day 2.

Today, when I sit sick and pen down my experience in Paris- I almost overlooked my sickness as tons of memories flashed back like a cinema. If you only saw Eiffel on the fabrics, books, blogs, phone covers, coffee shops and craved to be at the boulevards of Paris - Go for it. Everything aside and an experience like this last a lifetime. A best friend and a backpack are the best companions while you walk on a different piece of land somewhere else on Earth.

Quick Tips:
1. Paris Ticket - To use the hassle-free public transport. And a ticket to go to the Tower Terrace. 
2. Eat something different while you are in a new place, simply a struggle if you are vegetarian like me.  
3. There are too many migrants that try to trick you at Mont Martre, just escape from the trick.
4. Be like 100% sure to walk safely in a new place, anything fishy - hop onto a public transport and reach your destination.
5. Shopping - Almost what we get here unless very different and special turn down the plan. Expensive place.
6. Carry a map wherever you go. English reading and speaking ability are enough to manage.
7. Wear like the weather permits. 
8. Buy scarfs, books, posters, and postcards. Bargain if you are buying Souvenirs.  Go to the coolest bookstores in the world. 
9. Plan your shopping list and area in advance if you are a shopaholic and it fancies you to buy expensive brands outside.
10. Be Safe. 
With yet another promise to come back with another piece of my blah blah! 
Love,
(Nutty Wordsmith)